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We are here. We are real.

I haven’t blogged in awhile, but as pride month comes to a close, I thought I should post just to say that I’m here. I am real. It’s...

Judging the Joy

For the last couple weeks, I’ve been collecting and observing my moments of joy. I wanted to lay them all out for you, like beautiful...

The More Joy Challenge

I read a book recently; a book that has stayed with me in that delicious way that good books sometimes do. I was looking for some queer...

Bridges not Boxes

When I first learned about the emotional armour I wear (many years ago), I pictured it like a metallic suit made of hurt, anger and fear....

What if it's Enough?

This weekend I was at a Christmas party with a bunch of old friends. There was lots of catching up on the ups and downs of the previous...

Worth Worrying 2.0

This is a blog that I first wrote during the pandemic, and with the recent election praying on many people’s minds, I feel like it needed...

Rewrite the Hero Story

Last week, I set out in the morning to sit and write in the local juice bar only to find it completely packed. Feeling disappointed and...

The Truth About Magick

I had a new character show up in my head the other day. A woman in her late seventies, with alert dark brown eyes, wispy white hair and...

Writer's Block

I think it’s time to accept that I might just have writer’s block. I know, there’s a certain irony to writing about writer’s block. I’m...

Non-Binary is Not New

As a society, we like to discount ideas by saying they’re new. If it’s the newest technology, everyone wants to be in on it, but not so...

Yawn in the Face of Anxiety

Nobody knows why we yawn. Yawning’s an semi-automatic reflex found in almost all vertebrate animals, from sharks to koalas to snakes,...

Anticipation

I’ve never looked forward to anything. I had this realization the other day, and it felt impossible, but the longer  I sat with it, the...

Hard Things

I’m submitting two of the books I’ve written to the Canadian Writing for Children Competition. I might even submit a third, but with the...

A Sigh of Relief

I’ve been diving deep into breathwork over the last month. As always looking for the magical key that’s going to fix my health and make...

Contagious

Contagious doesn’t need to be a four letter word. We’ve all lived through Covid, a time where blame and illness became strangely...

Learning Surrender

Learning surrender feels a little like setting up an atheist church or running an anarchist government. I’m pretty sure we’re all born...

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